Day 2

Today was the second day of my group therapy. I have this strange feeling that everything is going to be okay

2 weeks ago  /  2 notes

Break-up Limbo

After a breakup, we tend to fall in this relationship limbo, where we decide we want to either go back to that person and make things right OR just pick up the pieces of ourself that were broken in the battle of heartache. It’s almost like a recovering drug addict who decided to stop using. She puts the rig down, but after 24 hours, the withdraws kick in. She tells herself she can do it and can get through the pain. 48 hours goes by and the pain is now unbearable. She has a choice: she can either fix the pain with a quick hit, or she can suffer through one more day of hell and then begin her new life, although starting over is scary as hell.

I know for me, change is scary. I don’t like when things change. When I have a routine, I like to stick with it, even when it deals with people. I like to keep the same people in my life. I don’t like to change the people I see or the people around my circle. But when a relationship is toxic, I need to learn how to let it go and move on and understand that as much as I don’t like change, sometimes change is good and much needed. 

1 month ago  /  3 notes

Part of me

Watching Katy Perry’s Part of Me video was empowering!!

2 months ago  /  0 notes